# @narellekheng on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/BxjrAFSjhmd
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/15778759-narellekheng-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/thumbnails/d35e53015d.jpg
- **Posted:** 2019-05-17T08:43:44.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** 𝖓𝖆𝖗𝖊𝖑𝖑𝖊 (@narellekheng) — https://gondola.cc/narellekheng

## Caption

Lately I’ve been (no longer toying, but) deeply analysing what it means to love myself. I’ve realised that while I can easily generate love for others, I cannot just will myself to love myself. Simply because I couldn’t forgive myself as easily as I do anyone else.. The key ingredient here was active thought and post action review lol. I had to understand and forgive myself for the mistakes made, and put in conscious action to change them. I couldn’t love myself for who I was or wanted to be, but for my effort and intention. That, I realised, is the difference between anyone else and I - that my actions and my intentions are the only thing I can control and if they stem from love, how can I not love myself ????? Idk still thinking.
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Anw my random thoughts inspired by the new Tiffany True Engagement ring 💍because if I’m gonna love someone enough to agree to a life contract I better love myself a whole damn lot first !!!! Take yourself, yo fren or yo lover on a date and visit Tiffany’s cute Blue Bench take over at Gardens by the Bay (which is actually so romantic in the morning ?!) and paint the town blue 🧚🏻‍♀✨ #BelieveInLove (i do believe !!) #TiffanySingapore
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