# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DJRdQxEKnEr
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/30336494-paulscanlonuk-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/adb126ceca.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-05-05T13:00:00.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

Have you experienced this? 

There’s a unique loneliness in being loved for what you give, not for who you are.
If you stopped shining, would they still show up? Or have you trained people to rely on your light without ever checking if it’s burning you out?

This year, try dialing it down — and see who truly sees you.

#mentalhealth #emotionalintelligence #selfawareness #growthmindset #mentalhealthmatters #relationshipadvice #dontshrink #loneliness

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## Tags

loneliness, selfawareness, dontshrink, emotionalintelligence, relationshipadvice, growthmindset, mentalhealth, mentalhealthmatters

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