# @coachjonnyfff on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DEuzBpONNFC
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/31957086-coachjonnyfff-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/c77b81b1ff.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-01-12T15:52:28.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Coach Jonny (@coachjonnyfff) — https://gondola.cc/coachjonnyfff

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😭 DOES YOUR CHILD get upset after a game?⁠
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Here’s how you can help!⁠
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1. Shift the focus from winning, to development and having fun.⁠
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It’s natural for children to feel upset after a tough game, especially if they’ve lost. However, it’s important to remind them that football is about more than just winning. ⁠
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Shift the focus towards their personal development and the fun they had. ⁠
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Highlight what they’ve learned, how they’ve improved, and the joy of playing with teammates. ⁠
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This helps them understand that there’s more to the game than winning and losing.⁠
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2. Celebrate their effort, not just the result.⁠
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Praise them for their hard work, and attitude throughout the match.⁠
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Instead of focusing on the score, say something like, “Well done for giving everything out there today.” This reinforces the idea that their commitment and attitude matter most, not just the outcome.⁠
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Encouragement like this will help build their resilience and encourage a positive mindset, even when things don’t go their way.⁠
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3. Be patient and understanding.⁠
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Sometimes, children just need a moment to process their emotions. Give them space, but let them know you’re there to support them no matter the result.⁠
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4. Remind them of the positives.⁠
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Ask them what they enjoyed about the game. This helps shift their mindset from focusing on the negatives and reminds them that every match has something worth celebrating.⁠
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By focusing on effort, fun, and development, you’ll help your child build a healthy relationship with sport and enjoy the process of learning, rather than getting too attached to the result.⁠
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Follow coachjonnyfff for more tips to support your child’s football journey!⁠
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#FootballFunFactory #CoachJonnyFFF #Parent #FootballParents #TopTips #SoccerParent #SoccerMom #SoccerDad #FootballMum #FootballDad

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- **Views:** 2,936
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## Credits

| Name | Username | Profile | Role |
| --- | --- | --- | --- |
| Coach Jonny | @coachjonnyfff | https://gondola.cc/coachjonnyfff | Creator |

## Tags

parent, footballmum, footballparents, soccerparent, coachjonnyfff, footballdad, footballfunfactory, soccermom, toptips, soccerdad

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