# @chloe.shih on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DLsD22_us26
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/32140582-chloeshih-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2025-07-04T14:00:00.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** chloe shih ✧･ﾟ (@chloe.shih) — https://gondola.cc/chloe.shih

## Caption

more reasons I was ambivalent about choosing bridesmaids:

1. I was afraid that picking friends would make other friends upset, so I thought it was easier to not choose at all 

2. My friends are from different walks of life and I was afraid it’d be very stressful to force them to mesh. 

I’m so glad I ended up choosing a small group! I didn’t have a maid of honor - that felt like a lot of pressure. We didn’t have a a bachelorette mostly because I planned this wedding in 3 mo and we simply had no time. 🫠

I also didn’t ask them to do a speech. We talked through what they thought would be more fun and less pressure and they ended up wanting to host a quiz/game for everyone! 

What do you think? Do you want a bridal party? Why or why not? And what do you look for in your bridal party? 

#chloesweddingseries #bridesmaids #weddingstories #weddingadvice #chloeandkevin

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chloeandkevin, weddingadvice, chloesweddingseries, bridesmaids, weddingstories

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