# @chloe.shih on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DDuVZAQR5Ht
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- **Posted:** 2024-12-18T15:00:00.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** chloe shih ✧･ﾟ (@chloe.shih) — https://gondola.cc/chloe.shih

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lesson 18 of 30 ↣ how do you set healthy 𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒔? 

s/o to brian.ayooo for helping me shoot and give feedback on the edits! 

I couldn’t fit all my learnings around setting boundaries, so here are some of my favorite sayings:

1. “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” - Prentis Hemphill

2. “Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter.” - Dr. Seuss

3. “It’s hard to say no, but it’s also hard to be a doormat. Choose your hard.” - (honestly, I yoinked this from a TikTok and twisted it.)

4. “You don’t have to set yourself on fire to keep others warm.” – multiple sources

#30lessonsby30 #settingboundaries #friendships #lovingyourself #boundaries #lifelessons

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lifelessons, settingboundaries, lovingyourself, friendships, boundaries, 30lessonsby30

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