# @yourtango on YouTube

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://youtube.com/watch?v=9oBSegwZKLY
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/33584967-yourtango-youtube
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- **Posted:** 2025-08-20T19:00:13.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** YourTango (@yourtango) — https://gondola.cc/yourtango

## Caption

Disconnect is natural for parents and their adult children. Condescension, resentment, and guilt is not.

Chapters:
00:00 - Does calling your parents make you feel bad?
00:23 - 11 phrases boomer parents say that make their kids shut down
00:46 - ‘When I was your age…’
01:28 - ‘That’s not a real job’
02:03 - ‘You just have to work harder’
02:43 - ‘You don’t know what you’re talking about’
03:47 - ‘Just buy a house instead’
04:36 - ‘We did fine without therapy’
05:22 - ‘You’ll understand when you’re older’
05:53 - ‘That’s not how the world works’
06:39 - ‘When are you going to settle down?’
07:14 - ‘Why don’t you come over more?’
08:05 - ‘You think you have it hard?’

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Read the article for more: https://www.yourtango.com/family/phrases-boomer-parents-say-make-adult-kids-shut-down-inside

Written by: Zayda Slabbekoorn
Edited by: Hannah Compton
Narrator: John Sundholm
Stock footage: Pexels.com, Pixabay.com

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## Tags

generationaltrauma, boomers, boomerparents

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