# @zarnagarg on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/CyGB-sjOEZw
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/33969268-zarnagarg-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2023-10-07T10:27:55.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Zarna Garg (@zarnagarg) — https://gondola.cc/zarnagarg

## Caption

Yesterday I received the highest compliment of my life - an elderly Indian uncle held my hand and said ‘since my wife started watching you, I’ve noticed she wears her kurtas more, puts on a bindi everyday … she’s more comfortable in her own skin - thank you’. He just said it and walked away / I came back in tears (again)
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I’ve been privileged enough to have access to the best of things (thanks to my husband / before MIL reminds me 🙄), designer clothes, the highest heels, fancy jewels - but when I decided to get on this stage, I decided I’m going to be me as I want to see myself.  Comfortable (cotton kurta), quirky (belt!), imperfect (messy bun), modest (sweaters for life) and fully grounded in my sneakers (no more pretending I like 👠)
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It’s thrilling to see Indian women embrace themselves as they are and even more thrilling to know that there are incredible Indian uncles out there who track their wives’ happiness - I felt guilty for making so many Indian men jokes 😞
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I called my husband to tell him about this sweet interaction and how deeply it affected me - his big takeaway was ‘you should start a kurta line’ 
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So I started yelling at him, ‘that’s all you have to say?’ - he goes ‘you said she wears her kurtas more because of you’ and I said yes but what about all the other stuff I said - he says ‘oh my AirPod fell out but you cry about this stuff all the time, I figured I didn’t miss anything’ 
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You know what - nvm about the guilt around Indian men jokes 😡😡
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#indiancomics #zarnagarg

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