# @beleafmel on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DOMhoq_El0f
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/34083045-beleafmel-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/cb56f44cca.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-09-04T21:40:31.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Beleaf In Fatherhood (@beleafmel) — https://gondola.cc/beleafmel

## Caption

“My lil feelings were hurt”
I thought I was leading my family.
Grinding. Providing. Trying to get us to a better life. But I never gave them assignments. Just expectations.
I wanted them to agree with my direction...
But they just needed to be included in the journey. 
This clip is taken from a conversation that we had on Saturday morning with black men discussing Fatherhood. Our next meeting is on September 13 hit my DM if you wanna show up.
#FatherYourselfFirst #BlackFatherhood #Leadership #BeleafInFatherhood #FamilyLeadership #FatherYourselfFirst

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## Tags

beleafinfatherhood, leadership, familyleadership, blackfatherhood, fatheryourselffirst

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