# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DOTUstwCnfM
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/34364716-paulscanlonuk-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/23c7117c8a.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-09-07T13:00:00.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

Emotional security isn’t about shutting people out. It’s not “I don’t care what you think.” 
More often, it’s: “I care what you think… but I don’t accept it as truth.”

That shift changes everything. It frees you from reacting and lets you see opinions as just that — perspectives, not definitions of who you are.

#emotionalsecurity #selfawareness #growthmindset #boundaries #relationshipadvice #eq #emotionalintelligence

## Stats

- **Views:** 621
- **Likes:** 86
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 6

## Tags

selfawareness, eq, emotionalintelligence, relationshipadvice, growthmindset, boundaries, emotionalsecurity

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