# @crystal.herry on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/CtkA7GlJQRY
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/35647847-crystalherry-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2023-06-16T21:58:18.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** CrystalHerry (@Crystal.herry) — https://gondola.cc/Crystal.herry

## Caption

Marriage is BEAUTIFUL! It’s also HARD! It can be both though. Choose your partner wisely. Its not just cute pictures and the wedding. It’s finances, loss, gains, spirituality, raising children (if you want), building wealth, it’s FOREVER! It’s saying “no” when you don’t want to. Being honest when it hurts to. Learning new ways to communicate. Growing through “CHANGE” together, and pushing each other. It’s praying for each other, sometimes more than you pray for yourself. Bad days, great days, low energy days, high energy days! Hard loses and Greater WINS! It’s addressing trauma and congratulating each other for healing. It’s communicating when you don’t want to and smothering each other when your obsessed! It’s amazing sex and sometimes its falling asleep before you even get there! I can go on for dayssss! BUT, Every SINGLE DAY, it’s the two of you! Who you are AT THE CORE! There’s no hiding. It’s holding up a huge mirror and tackling every single thing the devil sends your way TOGETHERRRR WITH GOD! Praying we ALL GET TO MARRY OUR BESTFRIEND, that way when things do HIT THE FAN….BC THEY WILL…you and your bestie know how to navigate as a team 🤎 
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parents, aftertheaisle, myheart, newparents, millennialmarriage, newlyweds, marriage, blacklove, blackhusbands, meandsomebodyson, blackmarriage, blackwives

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