# @melrobbins on TikTok

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins/video/7215653214199336197
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/36009167-melrobbins-tiktok
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/fabd603d33.jpg
- **Posted:** 2023-03-28T17:39:45.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Mel Robbins (@melrobbins) — https://gondola.cc/melrobbins

## Caption

We are ALL making this mistake when we "level up" and start living a life that is truly aligned with what we want (which is also usually a life that is VERY different from the people around you). STOP going to them for advice or approval. Instead, look to people who have similar goals as you or have done what you're trying to do. That is where you fill find the answers and motivation you need to keep going. Hear more on the #melrobbinspodcast: "Start Putting Yourself First: Tools to Say No Without Guilt or Drama” 🔗 in bio #melrobbins #changeyourlife #mindset #createabetterlife #takecontrol #motivation #goal #dreams #guilty #putyourselffirst #selflove #loveyourself #guilt #podcast #podcastepisode #podcastsforwomen #levelup #success #keepgoing

## Stats

- **Views:** 47,200
- **Likes:** 2,623
- **Shares:** 199
- **Comments:** 46

## Tags

selflove, dreams, podcastsforwomen, success, melrobbins, levelup, putyourselffirst, mindset, loveyourself, goal, podcastepisode, keepgoing, podcast, takecontrol, melrobbinspodcast, guilty, changeyourlife, motivation, guilt, createabetterlife

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