# @lindsayell on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DQMoArdERJ3
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/36098830-lindsayell-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/93bc133eb0.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-10-24T15:42:25.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Lindsay Ell (@lindsayell) — https://gondola.cc/lindsayell

## Caption

fence sitter is finally yours. ✨ i am so proud of this project and happy these songs are out in the world.

the question of if i want to be a mother one day has been something that has sat on my mind ever since i was a little girl. i respect parenthood so much that i do not take the decision lightly, only wanting to choose it if i know i am ready. there is a part of me that doesn’t want to miss out on having a family one day, and yet there is this other part of me that feels so focused on fully chasing my dreams right now. 

as a woman, to add one more layer, we are only given a finite time to make this choice, so lately i’ve really been hearing the ticking clock.

i watch so many of my amazing friends who have logistically complicated jobs, who travel a lot, who are also chasing dreams, and they make motherhood look so easy…but at this moment in my life i consider myself as firmly sitting on the fence. 

so if you are a fence sitter like me, i hope you connect with this song, and rest of the project. 💛

head to the link in my bio to stream, share, and buy tickets to tour so we can sing our hearts out together on the road!!! on sale starts TODAY at 10am local time. 

songwriters: megan_redmond dougschadt lindsayell 
vox, guitar: lindsayell
bass, synth: dougschadt 
drums: harrymiree 
production: dougschadt lindsayell 
mixing: aemaury 
mastering: jlaportamasters 

#fencesitter #newmusic #ontour

## Stats

- **Views:** 5,650
- **Likes:** 1,246
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- **Comments:** 69

## Tags

newmusic, fencesitter, ontour

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