# @allisonmathisjones on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/B8g3xNbilIo
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/38349527-allisonmathisjones-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/9d88bc3a88.jpg
- **Posted:** 2020-02-13T16:22:54.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Allison Mathis Jones (@allisonmathisjones) — https://gondola.cc/allisonmathisjones

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I remember being so scared before we had Harper that having kids would change EVERYTHING. I’d heard horror stories about how much becoming parents changes the dynamics in a marriage and I was terrified of what having children would do to our relationship. It’s part of the reason I wanted to wait a while to have babies - things were so great between us and I was enjoying just being husband and wife. Of course, as new parents, things are different, but, you know what? They’re BETTER. I feel seen, heard, and valued as the mother of your child. After going on 12 years together, 5 countries, and a baby girl, I feel truly and completely known. I love our family time and cherish our alone time. Becoming parents didn’t take anything away from our marriage. It added to it in the most beautiful way possible ♥️ #myforevervalentine .
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- **Views:** 0
- **Likes:** 383
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- **Comments:** 10

## Credits

| Name | Username | Profile | Role |
| --- | --- | --- | --- |
| Allison Mathis Jones | @allisonmathisjones | https://gondola.cc/allisonmathisjones | Creator |

## Tags

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