# @sheisfila on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DRuFrpoiP-u
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/59705365-sheisfila-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/738bb326f2.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-12-01T12:05:53.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Fila McMillan-Antwine (@sheisfila) — https://gondola.cc/sheisfila

## Caption

If you’re hearing that your boundaries—like delaying hand-holding or waiting to kiss—are "too much," "old-fashioned," or "too strict," here is the high-value truth you need to hear:

Your Boundaries are Never Too Strict. They are Non-Negotiable Tools of Safety.
When someone complains that your boundary is "strict," what they are really saying is: "I wish I had easier access to you."

High-value boundaries are not meant to keep good people out; they are designed to efficiently screen out low-investment people who prioritize instant gratification over true emotional connection.

Don't shrink your standards to fit weak intentions. Your boundaries are a reflection of the wealth you possess. Guard that wealth fiercely.

Have you ever felt pressured to drop a boundary? Share your experience and how you handled it.

#DatingBoundaries #HighValueDating #DatingStandards #EmotionalSafety #SoftPowerBlueprint #SelfWorth

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- **Views:** 105
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## Tags

softpowerblueprint, selfworth, datingboundaries, highvaluedating, datingstandards, emotionalsafety

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