# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DUSoPYyASXy
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/59739269-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/2e61aaf0e9.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-02-03T09:41:02.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

A lot of men mistake attraction for a green light.

But if someone is not emotionally stable and on meds, not accountable, and not doing real internal work, it doesn’t matter how good they look.

Eventually you pay for it.

First it’s fun.

Then it’s confusion.
Then it’s conflict.
Then it’s damage control.

Peace is expensive.
Stop shopping for love in the clearance aisle.

#UnfilteredWisdom #RelationshipWisdom #Boundaries #EmotionalMaturity #MensWork

## Stats

- **Views:** 413
- **Likes:** 4
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 1

## Tags

emotionalmaturity, menswork, unfilteredwisdom, relationshipwisdom, boundaries

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