# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DUK5wnFAbHO
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/59739307-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/a9905d3d76.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-01-31T09:39:58.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

In the water, one of the most dangerous things you can do is try to save a drowning person when you haven’t been trained to.

If you act on urgency and compassion alone, the person is in such a state of panic that they’ll grab onto you, climb on you, and drag you under.

And now instead of one person drowning, you’ve got two.

The same is true in life.

If someone is drowning in their problems, their chaos, their self-destruction, and you rush in without knowing what you’re doing, they don’t suddenly become peaceful because you showed up.

They drag you into it. They pull you into their mess. They make their emergency your responsibility.

And half the time, you end up getting punished for a problem you didn’t even create.

You can support people. You can guide people. You can love people.

But you’re never going to stop someone from facing the karma of their own decisions.

Trying to save someone who refuses to save themselves is how good people get destroyed.

#UnfilteredWisdom #Boundaries #TraumaHealing #EmotionalMaturity #SelfRespect Accountability RelationshipTruth

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## Tags

selfrespect, unfilteredwisdom, traumahealing, boundaries, emotionalmaturity

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