# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DUJ583yEkAw
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/59739308-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-01-31T00:22:28.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

If you were starving, you’d still have a hard time eating a bowl of your own vomit.

Why?

Because your body already rejected it. It already decided: “This doesn’t belong in me.”

So if you’re lonely, why would you go back to a person you already kicked out of your life?

You already ejected them. Your soul wasn’t compatible with them. Their behaviour wasn’t aligning with you. The disrespect, the chaos, the instability, whatever it was… your system already made the call.

But loneliness makes people do stupid things.

You don’t go back because it’s right. You go back because being alone feels uncomfortable. Because silence forces you to face yourself. Because you miss attention more than you miss the person.

And the truth is, going back usually ends worse the second time than it did the first.

Because when you take someone back, what you’re really telling them is: “You can violate me, and I’ll still make room for you.”

So they come back with even less respect. More bold. More careless. More entitled.

Just like forcing down something your body already rejected, it’s only a matter of time before you reject it again.

And you’ll get sicker in the process.

Loneliness is not a reason to betray your own standards.

#UnfilteredWisdom #SelfRespect #Boundaries #RelationshipTruth #EmotionalDiscipline

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emotionaldiscipline, selfrespect, unfilteredwisdom, relationshiptruth, boundaries

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