# @arielledangelo on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DUd2m4hEeMZ
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/60880240-arielledangelo-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/4f6e3bef6a.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-02-07T18:27:03.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Arielle D’Angelo | LGBTQ+ Transformation & Empowerment Coach (@arielledangelo) — https://gondola.cc/arielledangelo

## Caption

Comeee on besties, let’s do better.

Policing people’s seggsuality is not it. This is the veryyyy behavior that leads to people in our community wanting to stay hidden and feeling afraid to come out. 

Acceptance and compassion starts here. Identify in whatever way you want & let others identify in whateverrrr way they want. 

We’re losing the plot. It’s about freedom and love and authenticity, and when we try to box people in, we lose that…they lose that.

For some people seggsuality can be fluid and ever-evolving. We’re all just doing this weird ass human thing in this body, in this society, for the first time. We’re just living and exploring and figuring it out together.

Next time you think about making a comment about how another queer person or lesbian is choosing to identify or express themselves…please pause. and go live yaaaa life!!! Love who want. And, PLEASE, let them live theirs!! 

#lgbtq #wlw #comingout #lgbtqsupport #closeted

## Stats

- **Views:** 2,988
- **Likes:** 214
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 19

## Tags

wlw, lgbtq, comingout, closeted, lgbtqsupport

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