# @nrconsulting on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DOSl3PMjuzL
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/61115899-nrconsulting-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2025-09-07T06:15:58.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Nancy Rosales (@nrconsulting) — https://gondola.cc/nrconsulting

## Caption

Still in awe that humans invented language to connect—yet research shows we often misuse it. 
Studies reveal negative self-talk increases stress and depression (Psychology Today). Neuroscientists confirm our brains process harsh words like physical pain (NYU). 
And leaders who rely on criticism weaken performance instead of building it (ASU). 

Start reversing it by cutting negative words before they even leave your head. Eliminate them from your self-talk at all costs. Only positive, uplifting words—because the language you choose is the foundation of the business you build.

🚫 Bad Language Habits vs. ✅ CEO Fixes

Bad: Swearing or snapping in frustration.
Fix: Pause, reframe, and use precise language that drives solutions.

Bad: Gossiping about coworkers, clients, or competitors.
Fix: Replace with constructive feedback or silence—protect your brand.

Bad: Using dehumanizing labels (“lazy,” “toxic,” “difficult”).
Fix: Describe behaviors, not identities—focus on actions and outcomes.

Bad: Negative self-talk (“I can’t,” “I’m not good enough”).
Fix: Swap in affirmations—“I can learn,” “I am building capacity.”

Bad: Passive-aggressive communication (“per my last email”).
Fix: Be direct, professional, and clear about expectations.

Bad: Overpromising with words you can’t deliver on.
Fix: Speak commitments that match your capacity—protect credibility.

Bad: Arguments that aim to win, not resolve.
Fix: Use words to align, negotiate, and build common ground.

Bad: Complaining without solutions.
Fix: Only bring up problems if paired with a proposed solution.

Bad: Words that shrink others (“that’s dumb,” “you’ll never…”).
Fix: Words that expand others (“let’s try,” “you’ve got this”).

Bad: Jargon overload that confuses clients.
Fix: Keep words simple, clear, and outcome-focused.

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