# @movewithlottie on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DLZ-jEHIKw-
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/61115961-movewithlottie-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/09039edc07.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-06-27T13:29:34.000+00:00

## Caption

I’ve been quiet on socials since I got back from Bali and here’s why…

I just feel a bit lost, I’m past the tears and the heartbreak but I just feel like I’m at a crossroads in life and I’m lacking clarity. 

All I want to do is pole & travel 👀😂… but this isn’t sustainable. I’ve been reflecting a lot and I’ve realised I need more financial stability, being self employed is amazing and I love it but there are a lot of highs and lows, and it’s for this reason that I think i stayed with my ex for much longer than I should have. I became not completely but fairly dependent on him financially and I don’t ever want to be in that situation again. 

So I need to figure out a way to create more stability whilst maintaining and rebuilding the business that I love ❤️. 

I’m not sure what the future has in store for me, but I’m hoping we can figure it out together! 

#heartbreak #healingjourney #ex #femaleempowerment #polersofig #justagirl #narcrecovery #storytime

## Stats

- **Views:** 648
- **Likes:** 137
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 20

## Tags

polersofig, justagirl, storytime, femaleempowerment, ex, heartbreak, narcrecovery, healingjourney

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