# @movewithlottie on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DJUWsHxIy5l
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/61115974-movewithlottie-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2025-05-06T16:00:00.000+00:00

## Caption

In my self-respect era… long gone are the days where I’d cancel plans & hobbies for a man. 
I’m prioritising my business, my hobbies & female friends over romance. 

Filling my own cup with pole practice , the gym, brunch dates, dog walks with the girls & all the things that light me up the most 🩵.

Why? Because I refuse to centre my life around a man again. I’m no longer going to conveniently slot into a man’s life and live it on his terms. 

This is another step I’m taking to heal my anxious attachment… This is how I plan to keep our power when I have relationships in future. 

I’ve realised that I thrive the most when I’m single. I’m the most confident, bubbly & happy version of myself, and that energy needs to be protected! 

I have always attracted the type of men who feed off that positive energy and drain me of it. So by focusing on replenishing my energy with hobbies etc, I will be less invested in men who are no good for me… a good man will respect you more for not being so available, and by raising my personal standards for myself (gym, hobbies self-care) I’m showing potential suitors how to treat me too! 

Follow along for real time healing ❤️‍🩹👯‍♀️

#gymgirl #healingfromheartbreak #relationships #anxiousattachment #ex #gymreels #selfrespect #reflection #healyourself #selflove❤️ #💔

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## Tags

healingfromheartbreak, ex, selfrespect, gymreels, relationships, reflection, gymgirl, anxiousattachment, selflove, healyourself

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