# @lacause_iam on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DVrRwF1ElDc
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/61225384-lacause-iam-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-03-09T20:00:13.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** 𝐒𝐞𝐛𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐋𝐚𝐂𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 (@lacause_iam) — https://gondola.cc/lacause_iam

## Caption

Most conversations about sex focus on morality.

Right or wrong.
Sin or virtue.
Control or indulgence.

But almost no one talks about what this conditioning actually does to the body.

When sexual identity is shamed…
when desire is labeled dangerous…
when pleasure is framed as something to hide or suppress…

the nervous system learns something very specific:

Pleasure isn’t safe.

For many queer people this imprint runs even deeper.

Before you ever had language for who you were, your body was already receiving signals from the world around you.
What’s acceptable, what’s not.
What’s welcome, what’s dangerous.

So even if your mind eventually claims freedom, the body may still be holding an older instruction:

Hide.
Don’t be seen.
Don’t feel too much.

This is why sexual energy work is not just about sex.

It’s about reclamation.

Reclaiming sensation.
Reclaiming pleasure.
Reclaiming the creative life force that was taught to stay small.

Because when the body learns that pleasure is safe to experience…

something extraordinary happens.

The same channel that receives pleasure begins to receive insight, creativity, intuition and inspiration.

Pleasure stops being the end of the experience.

It becomes the access point.

And for many of us, learning to receive pleasure safely is the first step in remembering who we actually are.

#theportalisyou

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