# @iamlouiserumball on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/CSZ-D-nKWaN
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/61833554-iamlouiserumball-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2021-08-10T19:33:53.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Louise Rumball (@iamlouiserumball) — https://gondola.cc/iamlouiserumball

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Season 2 of openhouselife is now live. Introducing OPEN(HEART) w/ drtarimack! 🤍🤍🤍⠀
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Dr Tari and I go deep into the recent Teddy & Faye argument that recently blew up on Love Island and use it as a vehicle to discuss conflict and toxic conflict, what does it mean when we get triggered, where and who do we learn our anger responses from, and is anger self-sabotage or does it hold the key to something deeper?⠀
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Dr Tari takes us through who was gaslighting who in this situation, who should have walked away; and whether or not she would advise the two to repair their relationship. ⠀
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We also look at the biology of anger, what healthy conflict means; and the four 'horseman' - the four communication and conflict errors that have been statistically proven to be most likely to lead to divorce and relationship breakdown.⠀
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Then, obviously, we talk about my ex boyfriends and my own experience with conflict - because, we could do 6 seasons about them. We talk about a very angry ex boyfriend of mine - and one who was the opposite - totally anti-conflict. Many learnings. Many many learnings. ⠀
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Now live on Apple & Spotify. ENJOY!!! xoxo⠀
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🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 openhouselife⠀
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#TeddyAndFaye #Therapy #AskATherapist

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therapy, teddyandfaye, askatherapist

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