# @drlauraberman on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DWzKbsPE7wM
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/62837755-drlauraberman-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/7defd7d7df.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-04-06T18:02:14.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Laura Berman (@drlauraberman) — https://gondola.cc/drlauraberman

## Caption

A lot of men feel  such performance pressure...and unnecessarily so!

In this languageoflovepodcast session, I talk about what real confidence actually looks like.

It is not about always knowing what to do or never facing awkward moments.

Real confidence is staying calm in your body even when things do not go as planned.

It's attuning to your partner's rhythm and response

It's staying open and curious, not trying to prove anything.

Listen to the full episode to learn more about what confidence really looks like and how to build it. Check out this episode of Language of Love. Link in bio.

#LanguageOfLovePodcast

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