# @fernconnections on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DTyBFsskQDA
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63244455-fernconnections-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/b2e873bf05.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-01-21T17:45:38.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Daphney Poyser (@fernconnections) — https://gondola.cc/fernconnections

## Caption

What are the best kinds of events for people who are more shy or introverted?

I like to call myself an ambivert because while I am rather introverted a lot of the time, I also feel that being around people, especially the ones I love, is a great way to fill my cup. 🤲🏽

BUT! Y’all, even as an ambivert I don’t love being in large crowds of people, nor do I love when people are standing too close to me 😂 and so if you’re like me, my suggestion is to attend smaller, more intimate focused events that have 20-40 people in attendance. 

This is the range of people we tend to have at our singles events, and over the past 5 almost 6 years, we’ve found that having less than 50 people at an event has allowed for folks to create more meaningful, and intentional connections with one another—which is exactly what Fern Connections is about. 💚

People often think that when it comes to singles events that more is always better, but that’s not really the case. It’s not about the quantity of people in attendance, it’s about the quality of the people—and if you find yourself a part of a community or space of folks who you have common interests and values with, regardless of whether there’s 30 rather than 300 people, I believe that you’ll be more likely to find someone there that you can connect with on a deeper level than anywhere else. 🫂

🔊 Let me know what y’all think below! Are you an introvert, ambivert, or extrovert? And what would be your favorite activity to do if you were attending a singles event?

#SinglesEvents #Dating #introvert #shy #ltkstyletip

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## Tags

introvert, singlesevents, shy, ltkstyletip, dating

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