# @hali.jama on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DSdtk-gjQmd
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63312765-halijama-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/9d5bcb0fe4.jpg
- **Posted:** 2025-12-20T00:01:23.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Hali Jama 🍵 (@hali.jama) — https://gondola.cc/hali.jama

## Caption

A lot of the things we struggle with aren’t random… they’re rooted in weak systems.
You don’t like how your friends treat you? Cool.
But what expectations did you set in the beginning?
If you never communicated your standards, people will default to whatever is easiest for them.

This year, fix the system:

1. Say what you expect. 
2.Enforce it consistently.
3.Stop letting things slide that bother you.

Strong systems create strong relationships. Start there.

#relationshiptips #relationshipproblems #communicationskills #communicationtips

## Stats

- **Views:** 7,553
- **Likes:** 953
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- **Comments:** 13

## Tags

communicationskills, relationshiptips, relationshipproblems, communicationtips

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