# @iamnicolejae on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DLcujlqOV0v
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63383404-iamnicolejae-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2025-06-28T15:10:29.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Nikki (@iamnicolejae) — https://gondola.cc/iamnicolejae

## Caption

Share this with another Queen who could use a reminder!

Lift that head, adjust your crown 👑, and get to work loving on yourself.

Being someone else’s dream girl is cool 🥰 — but are you the dream girl version of yourself, to you?? If not, get to work, luv. 🫶🏽

🫶🏽 Do the inner work — that’s well over half the battle. Work to be just as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside. No amount of makeup, jewelry, clothes, money, or achievements can cover a nasty heart.

🫶🏽 What dream did you let life rock to sleep? Wake it back up!!

🫶🏽 Your circle… are they good for you? Do they inspire you? Do they edify you?

Not sure? Ask God to clear what’s not of HIM, and strengthen and clarify what is. Watch Him come through like a RICO sweep 🧹💯🙏🏽

🫶🏽 Pamper yourself! Love on yourself! Get that massage. Schedule that facial. Do your skincare. Get your nails done regularly. Get your hair done. Revamp that wardrobe. PURGE THOSE OLD CLOTHES OUT — make room for the new!!

🫶🏽 Get that wellness visit in! Go to the doctor. Make sure you’re healthy! Your health is extremely important. Make that doctor’s appointment and that dentist appointment.

(Yes, I’m preaching to myself too — and I’ve adjusted my schedule and habits to take better care of my health.)

🫶🏽 REST WHEN YOU NEED IT!!

Don’t apologize for taking time to rest, relax, reflect, or pause.

They’ll be okay — I promise!

🫶🏽 “No.” is a complete sentence. 🥂

🏝️ BOOK THAT FLIGHT AND GO!

If you have to — GO👏🏽BY👏🏽YOURSELF👏🏽!! Take the solo trip. Order the room service. Watch sunsets in silence. Life’s too short to wait for company. ✈️ GO✈️

#travel 

Your new life is waiting on you. ☺️ Are you ready?

#inspiration #inspirational #motivation #dallasinfluencer #travelgram #blacktravel #blackwomen #blackwomenluxury

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inspiration, blackwomen, dallasinfluencer, blacktravel, motivation, travel, travelgram, inspirational, blackwomenluxury

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