# @advicewitherin on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DWSYnZ6jCzd
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63464856-advicewitherin-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/79ed41204b.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-03-25T00:27:50.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** AdviceWithErin | Career & Life Advice (@advicewitherin) — https://gondola.cc/advicewitherin

## Caption

‼️ remember: the best boundaries are oftentimes what you choose *not* to engage in/respond to. 

However, sometimes you’ll be put in a situation where someone tries to invite you into a conversation you don’t want to attend. It is OK to rsvp no :)

Every situation is unique! As always, this is an example for inspiration. 

The way to do this sneakily? With a smile! Relaxed. With confidence. Warmth. 

💭 Pretend like someone offered you vanilla ice cream but you can’t eat dairy. Thanks but I can’t! Enjoy your ice cream, though! 👋 

You got this 👏 #boundary #mentalhealth #job 

PS if you want to learn the secret language of work, comment or dm me the word “SECRETS”

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## Tags

boundary, mentalhealth, job

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