# @marcherobinson on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DOXHvWJkRdi
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63468478-marcherobinson-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2025-09-09T00:34:35.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Marche Robinson (@marcherobinson) — https://gondola.cc/marcherobinson

## Caption

This comment actually illustrates my biggest issue with so much “mom advice”, it centers everyone except the mother. A family is only as strong as the woman holding it together. If a mother has more children than she can mentally, physically, or financially care for, no one benefits. There’s no guarantee siblings will be close or share responsibilities later in life, I have a brother, and I personally handle 100% of my mother’s care. And some of my closest, ride-or-die relationships are with friends, not family. For me, the most thoughtful choice is the one that allows me to be the best mom I can be to the daughter I already have. I’d rather raise a strong, independent little girl who can handle whatever life throws her way than gamble on the idea that “one more” will ensure her happiness. So here’s my gentle reminder: the choices that work for your family are valid. But they are not gospel for every woman. #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #momadvice #momlife #oneanddone #momlife

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oneanddone, momlife, motherhood, motherhoodunplugged, momadvice

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