# @adrimoench on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/C57aPfvLHA0
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63487368-adrimoench-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2024-04-19T03:41:28.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Trauma Informed Coach / Expanded States (@adrimoench) — https://gondola.cc/adrimoench

## Caption

Breaking free from the systems we originated in is the first step towards defining commitment to self.

Our attachment to any story we tell in or about our life, is directly rooted in an expectation or disappointment that the world projected onto us through our initial domestication as children. 

When we learn to detach from the fear of disappointing others, we start to lose our attachments to our victim stories. 

When we are no longer attached to our victim stories, we will eventually release the expectations we have of ourselves. 

When we release expectations of ourselves, we will no longer live as a victim to our circumstances. 

When we are no longer a victim to our circumstances, we step into the unlearning of our domestications and embrace a conscious creation of a life worth celebrating.

When we stop compromising ourselves for the systems we were born in, we commit to ourselves to a new a system rooted in our own authenticity and autonomy.

When we embrace a life worth celebrating in autonomy, we commit to a life worth living for ourselves and not by the attachments or obligations to anyone else.

When we release ourselves from the commitments to the systems and obligations we were raised in, we exchange a homecoming for ourself in commitment to our highest frequency of living.

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