# @paulscanlonuk on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DW1UGKOMvEx
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/63793479-paulscanlonuk-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/842dde61d6.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-04-07T14:00:00.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Paul Scanlon (@paulscanlonuk) — https://gondola.cc/paulscanlonuk

## Caption

Before your next disagreement, ask yourself two things:

Am I carrying something from somewhere else into this conversation?
Am I transferring frustration from something or someone else into this moment?

A lot of conflict isn’t about what’s in front of us.
It’s about what we’ve brought with us.

Catch that, and most disagreements become a lot simpler.

#conflictresolution #difficultconversations #selfawareness #leadership

## Stats

- **Views:** 901
- **Likes:** 84
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- **Comments:** 4

## Tags

selfawareness, leadership, conflictresolution, difficultconversations

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