# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DXVnjCokwwF
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/64268224-juleswaller-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-04-20T03:06:23.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

University mental health trained. 
A mum who lived 100+ missed days.

I tracked every morning my daughter couldn’t get to school.
I found 7 patterns nobody warned me about.

None of them were what the school told me.

The physical symptoms weren’t avoidance. 
They were alarm.
The “fine on weekends” wasn’t manipulation. It was a nervous system in recovery.

The harder we pushed, the worse it got.
Every single time.

She missed 100+ days of school.
She got into her first choice university.

Not because we pushed harder.

Because we finally stopped - and learned what her body actually needed.

If any of these 7 patterns sound like your mornings, comment TOOLKIT and I’ll send you the link directly.

- Jules ❤️

#schoolrefusal #schoolsupoort #schoolanxiety #teenanxiety #anxiouskids

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schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, anxiouskids, teenanxiety, schoolsupoort

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