# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DXk4ikfAQWp
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/64817772-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/207bde5543.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-04-26T01:24:35.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

There’s a difference between attention and love.

Flaunting your sexuality and being promiscuous will get you attention. People will want to utilise your body in exchange for short-term pleasure. But attention isn’t care, and it isn’t commitment.

The long-term risk and damage often outweigh the short-term reward.

You might end up pregnant with someone you don’t even like and be tied into a situation you never truly wanted. You might face the emotional weight of an abortion. You can experience being used and discarded, which slowly erodes your self-esteem. There’s also the risk of infections or STDs—some of which don’t go away.

And above all else, once you start down a path of risky behaviour, you open the door to consequences that can’t always be undone.

So while the world may glorify promiscuity, it comes with real trade-offs.

The question is simple: Are you chasing attention, or are you building something real?

#selfawareness #relationships #modernlove #datingadvice #personalgrowth

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- **Views:** 245
- **Likes:** 11
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- **Comments:** 3

## Tags

selfawareness, relationships, personalgrowth, modernlove, datingadvice

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