# @susanewinter on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DXt6Km4Dc62
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/65020224-susanewinter-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/79023e598b.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-04-29T13:31:09.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Susan Winter | Love Coach (@susanewinter) — https://gondola.cc/susanewinter

## Caption

You're not falling for who they are, you're falling for the story you've created about them.

When you meet someone new, notice what you're attaching to the small details you observe.

He coaches kids, so he must want a family. 

She's kind to strangers, so she'll never hurt you. 

These leaps aren't reality, they're your dream working overtime.

Stay open to love, but stop writing the ending before the story even begins.

#HealthyRelationships #SelfConfidence #Love #DatingAdvice

## Stats

- **Views:** 184
- **Likes:** 15
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 1

## Tags

selfconfidence, healthyrelationships, love, datingadvice

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