# @drlauraberman on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DYArDopTDwx
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/65064437-drlauraberman-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-05-06T20:25:34.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Laura Berman (@drlauraberman) — https://gondola.cc/drlauraberman

## Caption

You can still hold love for someone you’ve lost… and allow yourself to love again.

In this languageoflovepodcast session, I'm working with a listener who is struggling to trust love again after being so hurt. 

We can all relate to THAT I think!

The key is in how we approach opening to love again. 

When love is driven by fear of being alone…it either repells love, or if not tends to create urgency, pressure, and attachment that doesn’t feel steady.

But when it comes from a place of self-connection, clarity and wholenss…the intentionallity, calm, and alignment makes you a match for healthy and lasting connection.

Understanding that difference can shift the kind of relationships you allow into your life.

Type "Wholenss" in the comments below and I'll send you this episode, or you can listen to the  Language of Love podcast and learn how to approach love from a more secure place. Link In Bio.

#LanguageOfLovePodcast #DrLauraBerman #relationshipgoals #lookingforlove

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lookingforlove, languageoflovepodcast, relationshipgoals, drlauraberman

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