# @saradamergi on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DYLAr0Ko3j8
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/65241507-saradamergi-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/3defd35917.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-05-10T20:46:20.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Sara Damergi (@saradamergi) — https://gondola.cc/saradamergi

## Caption

I keep seeing all these posts on Instagram at the moment saying to boy mums, “Are you OK?”

And yes … I relate 🤣

Because there are a lot of fights.

I’ve basically become a pro referee in my own house.

It’s wild 😜 

But then I saw something on the gram about the brother effect — and actually, when you look at the psychology, there is something in it.

Because yes, siblings fight especially brothers…

But they’re also learning how to negotiate, how to forgive, how to share, how to defend each other, how to read each other, how to fall out and come back together again.

And watching these two together… one minute they’re wrestling like tiny little drunk men in a bar brawl , the next they’re hugging , laughing at some ridiculous joke only they understand.

Yes, I’m constantly saying, “Stop!!!’

But I also know I’m watching something amazing .

Chaos , yeah but a built in best friend for life ! 

#boymum #mumofboys #raisingboys #mumlife #parenting

## Stats

- **Views:** 473
- **Likes:** 59
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- **Comments:** 10

## Tags

boymum, parenting, mumlife, raisingboys, mumofboys

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