# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DX9jTpMky_Z
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/65265955-juleswaller-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-05-05T15:18:57.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

The hardest part wasn’t watching her struggle.
It was doing everything we were told - and watching it make things worse.

Every professional had an answer. 
Every answer made sense on paper. 
None of them accounted for what was actually happening in her body.

School refusal isn’t a behaviour problem that needs correcting. 
It’s a nervous system in alarm that needs safety first. 
Those are not the same thing. 

The approach is completely different.

We stopped following the advice. 
We stopped adding threat. 
And for the first time in a long time - things started to shift.

If you’re doing everything right and nothing is working, you don’t have a compliance problem. 

You have a missing piece of information.

The Toolkit is that piece. 
Link in bio.

- Jules ♥️

#schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #schoolstress #schoolcounselor #schoolpsychologist

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schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, schoolstress, schoolcounselor, schoolpsychologist

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