# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DY2LrU1Tom6
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/66114659-juleswaller-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/e524cf5bcd.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-05-27T15:10:55.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

The word “refusal” puts the blame on your child. 
But when a nervous system is in crisis, there is no choice - there’s only survival mode.

That’s why most behaviour-based strategies don’t work. They’re trying to change the behaviour without addressing what’s driving it.

The School Refusal Recovery Toolkit works differently - it focuses on the nervous system first. 

Over 550+ families have used it to get their kids back to school.

(I still use the term “school refusal” so that parents searching for help can find me - but I believe with everything in me that it’s the wrong word.)

Comment TOOLKIT below and I’ll send you the link 💛

- Jules x

#schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #schoolcounselor #schooldropoff #childrensmentalhealth

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- **Views:** 603
- **Likes:** 15
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## Tags

schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, schoolcounselor, childrensmentalhealth, schooldropoff

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