# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DY1grwJE8Dh
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/66114660-juleswaller-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/dc6d9220a1.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-05-27T08:53:30.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

Something I wish someone had told me in those early months of school refusal.

When your child can’t get through the gate, the instinct is to push harder. 
Be firmer. 
Stay consistent.

But when a nervous system is in alarm, pushing doesn’t build courage - it builds fear.

That’s the shift that changed everything for us. 
And for 550+ families who’ve already been through the toolkit.

If you’re in the thick of it right now - this was made for you.

Comment TOOLKIT below and I’ll send it straight to you.

- Jules ♥️

#schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #schoolstress #schoolsucks #teenmentalhealth

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schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, schoolstress, teenmentalhealth, schoolsucks

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