# @un_filtered_wisdom on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DZWZeGIhaOf
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/66540656-un-filtered-wisdom-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/a60e9e8667.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-06-09T03:35:52.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Rhaab Grien (@un_filtered_wisdom) — https://gondola.cc/un_filtered_wisdom

## Caption

It's better to go hungry than to eat rotten food.

The same applies to the people you keep around you.

A lot of people stay connected to toxic friendships, relationships, and social circles because they're lonely. They mistake familiarity for loyalty and shared suffering for genuine connection.

Just because someone understands your pain doesn't mean they're helping you heal it.

Sometimes all they're doing is reinforcing it.

Misery loves company because growth is uncomfortable. The moment you start changing, taking responsibility, setting boundaries, or aiming higher, you'll often discover who was invested in your success and who was invested in your participation.

Not everyone wants to see you win.

Some people just want you close enough to validate their excuses, agree with their complaints, and stay trapped in the same cycle they're unwilling to leave.

The temporary comfort of belonging isn't worth the long-term cost of stagnation.

Being alone for a season is often healthier than surrounding yourself with people who constantly pull you back into the same drama, negativity, and self-destructive patterns.

Choose your company carefully.

The people around you are either helping you build a better future or making your current problems feel more comfortable.

There's a difference.

#PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #MindsetShift #LifeLessons #HealthyBoundaries GrowthMindset PersonalDevelopment

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## Tags

healthyboundaries, selfawareness, lifelessons, mindsetshift, personalgrowth

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