# @juleswaller_ on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DZocVjwk-Iy
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/66681084-juleswaller-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-06-16T03:36:47.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Julie Waller (Jules) | School Refusal Support (@juleswaller_) — https://gondola.cc/juleswaller_

## Caption

The “nervous system” isn’t a buzzword.

It’s the reason your child can be completely fine on Saturday and completely unable to walk through the gate on Monday.

It’s not mood. 
It’s not manipulation. 

It’s a body that has learned - through repeated experience - that school means danger.

And the reason most treatment doesn’t stick isn’t because your child isn’t trying. 

It’s because the approach starts in the middle. 

Cognitive tools require a regulated nervous system to work. 

If the alarm is still firing, they just slide right off.

Nobody told us that either.  We found it the hard way - after years and years of going round in circles from appointment to appointment. 

I don’t want that for you.

Comment TOOLKIT and I’ll send you what actually helps.

Jules ♥️

#schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #teenanxiety #teenmentalhealth #schoolsucks

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schoolrefusal, schoolanxiety, teenmentalhealth, teenanxiety, schoolsucks

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