# @billyvsco on TikTok

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.tiktok.com/@billyvsco/video/7653104600492281119
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/66910514-billyvsco-tiktok
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- **Posted:** 2026-06-19T13:54:54.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** billy | DO BETTER Parenting (@BillyVsco) — https://gondola.cc/BillyVsco

## Caption

Then they use the Bible to justify it. But it’s interesting how often we hear the verses about children obeying their parents… and how rarely we hear the verses telling parents not to provoke, discourage, or exasperate their children. Gentle parenting isn’t a lack of parenting. It’s parenting with self-control. It’s setting boundaries without humiliation. It’s giving fair consequences without anger. It’s correcting behavior without damaging connection. Anyone can demand obedience. Not everyone can stay calm, stay consistent, and stay connected when emotions are high. The strongest parent in the room isn’t the one who can overpower their child. It’s the one who can lead them. 👊 Fair consequences. ❤️ Connection. 🧠 Self-control. Those aren’t weaknesses. They’re strengths. 💬 Kids are far more likely to listen to someone they trust than someone they fear. #LoveStrongParenting #ConnectionOverControl #DadLife #Ephesians64 #Colossians321 🤝🔥

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- **Views:** 58,500
- **Likes:** 2,471
- **Shares:** 27
- **Comments:** 37

## Tags

lovestrongparenting, ephesians64, dadlife, colossians321, connectionovercontrol

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