# @drlauraberman on Instagram

- **Type:** Image
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Da0wq_Fk7Pw
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/67785601-drlauraberman-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-07-15T18:56:45.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Laura Berman (@drlauraberman) — https://gondola.cc/drlauraberman

## Caption

Many relationship patterns don’t start in adulthood...

When emotional needs are inconsistent growing up... the nervous system learns patterns instead of safety.

The Mother Wound often shows up as losing yourself in love... over-giving, over-caring, or feeling responsible for keeping connection alive.

The Father Wound often shows up as questioning love... choosing distance, emotional unavailability, or feeling unseen even when you are valued.

So in adult relationships...

- You can receive love and still feel empty.
- You can be chosen and still feel unsure.
- You can be close to someone and still feel alone.

Which pattern feels more familiar to you... mother wound, father wound, or both?

Share it in the comments 📩

#relationshiphealing #attachmenthealing #emotionalwounds #innerchildhealing #drlauraberman

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attachmenthealing, relationshiphealing, emotionalwounds, innerchildhealing, drlauraberman

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