# @celebrationsbysinead on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Da4xaVOonHN
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/67927523-celebrationsbysinead-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-07-17T08:22:05.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Sinéad Laffan | 🎤 UK Wedding Celebrant (@celebrationsbysinead) — https://gondola.cc/celebrationsbysinead

## Caption

**Trigger warning** Middle aged woman makes involuntary noise while lying down...you can't say you weren't warned. Ok, as you were. 

You know how lots of couples agree on a budget for Christmas presents?

Agreeing on roughly how much you’ll each invest, so nobody turns up with a pair of socks while the other has booked a week in New York.

Well, you can do the same with your vows.

You don’t need matching word counts, matching structures or matching stories. Agree on a time budget, say 90 seconds to 2 min each, (or 20 minutes if you’re Taylor Swift #WTAF) and write what you genuinely want to say within it.

You’ll both have plenty of freedom, while knowing you’re preparing for roughly the same-sized moment.

You can comment “freebie” for the How Wedding Ceremonies Work guide if you’re just starting out. Also because free. 🥳

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