# @drlauraberman on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Da8xGHxzwQK
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68121955-drlauraberman-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-07-18T21:35:34.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Laura Berman (@drlauraberman) — https://gondola.cc/drlauraberman

## Caption

Many people believe love is something you either find... or you don't.

But what if love isn't something that happens to you...

What if it's something you intentionally create?

In this week's episode of @languageoflovepodcast, I'm joined by @dr.saranasserzadeh (relationship expert, psychologist, and internationally recognized researcher who has spent more than 20 years studying thriving couples across 40 countries)

Together, we explore why attraction is something we can cultivate... why love isn't reserved for a lucky few... and why getting clear about what you really want changes everything.

In this full episode, we also discuss:

💫 How your nervous system shapes who you're attracted to.

💫 Why intense chemistry isn't always a sign you've found the right person.

💫 The powerful question that reveals whether you're settling for the love you think you deserve.

🎙️ Listen to the full episode of The Language of Love through the link in my bio.

If you've ever wondered why certain relationship patterns keep repeating... this episode may help you understand them in an entirely new way.

#languageoflovepodcast #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #drlauraberman

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## Tags

healthyrelationships, relationshipadvice, languageoflovepodcast, drlauraberman

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