# @crystal.herry on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/Da79wkBgRnf
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68137667-crystalherry-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-07-18T14:08:05.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** CrystalHerry (@Crystal.herry) — https://gondola.cc/Crystal.herry

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Trigger Warning (Child Loss)The truth is….it wasn’t hard clapping for my friends in the midst of my pain BC they all showed up. Sisterhood saved me this year. Losing a lil baby inside of you isn’t fun, after months of being sick 🥹🥹 it was actually DEVASTATING, and definitely wasn’t on my bingo card for 2026. Howeverrrrrrrr God is the best with TIME. The phone calls, text messages, showing up at my house in GEORGIA 🥹🥹 the sleepovers, hospital visits, picking up Jasir from school, letting me cry orrrr letting me act like it never happened. Staying with Jasir while I go in the bathroom to cry! Calling Jelani when I was tooo sad to answer the phone for weeks. Praying for and with me 🥹🥹! The flowersssssss omg the flowerssssss (my house was like a lil garden) Oh and baby the dark jokes 😩😩 the dark jokes (I’m gunna stop) I promise lmao! The girlsssss nightsssss omg yall did yall biggest this year bc we been having above a BALLLLL😂😂😂😂😂! This whole year feels like a blur and I just know I wouldn’t have made it out in my right mind without yall! 🥹🥹🥹 Anyway you put it I’m literally praying that alllllllll of us gets blessed with friends/sisters like me. My mom and husband @itsmrherry_ would need a book on what they’ve done so we just going to focus on my girlssssss tuhday! And we’ll save how I almost died in Georgia hospitals bc abortions are illegal, thanks to y’all’s president, if the baby had a heart beat and just refusedddddd to exit my body naturally. That however is another story for another year. I miss yall!!! The DM’s make my heartwarmmmmm….well except the ones of yall saying yall just know I’m missing bc I’m pregnant bc chileeeeeee!!! I know yall mean well but baby I’m in tears Everytime I get a DM like that 😩😩😩!! Anywho maybe I’m back but maybe I’m not…..love yall 😩😩🥰😘💕 #childloss #friendship #sisterhood #miscarriage #motherhood 
……To any mothers experiencing child loss in any capacity. I’m praying for you, praying your community holds you up, and praying that your mental health is being fed. This is your reminder that it’s not your fault, you di

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miscarriage, motherhood, friendship, childloss, sisterhood

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