# @sheisfila on Instagram

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- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DbdpQwXjfbO
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68556614-sheisfila-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-07-31T16:00:52.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Fila McMillan-Antwine (@sheisfila) — https://gondola.cc/sheisfila

## Caption

This isn't just about love. 

The same pattern that has you over-giving in relationships doesn't stay contained there. It's in the friendship where you're always the one reaching out first. In how much of yourself gets handed to a job before anyone's asked for it. In the family dynamic where you've quietly become everyone's shock absorber.

Same pattern. Different rooms.

Going deeper on this on Substack: https://filaantwine.substack.com/

Where else in your life have you noticed this same pattern,outside of romantic relationships?

#OverNurturer #WomenOver40 #IdentityWork #SecondBloom

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womenover40, secondbloom, identitywork, overnurturer

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