# @drlauraberman on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DbrJZIxT5u6
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68666540-drlauraberman-instagram
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/8b91634980.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-08-05T21:53:24.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Laura Berman (@drlauraberman) — https://gondola.cc/drlauraberman

## Caption

Women's desire has been misunderstood by their partner for ages.

Men often experience desire like a "SPARK"

Women... often experience desire more like a "SLOW FLAME"

It grows through connection... emotional safety... relaxation... and feeling comfortable in their own body.

It means desire is something that develops in response to how she feels.

When couples don't understand this difference... it's easy to misread each other and assume something is wrong with the relationship.

In the latest languageoflovepodcast episode, I share why women's desire works differently... what actually helps it grow... and practical ways couples can build a deeper sense of intimacy together.

Watch the full episode through the link in my bio 🔗

#languageoflovepodcast #relationships #drlauraberman

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## Tags

relationships, languageoflovepodcast, drlauraberman

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