# @markusmmey on Instagram

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://www.instagram.com/p/DboyJoPikw7
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68672239-markusmmey-instagram
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- **Posted:** 2026-08-04T23:52:27.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** Markus M Mey (@markusmmey) — https://gondola.cc/markusmmey

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Why Women Often Don’t Understand This Obsession
Why do so many women struggle to understand foot or shoe obsessions?
Spoiler: because most women don’t experience attraction the same way men do.
And that’s where the misunderstanding begins.
Welcome to a new round of Funny Feet Fakts.
My name is Markus M. Mey, author of the book “Am I Normal? Understanding Foot & Shoe Obsessions” available in Englisch and German on Amazon.
Lets get into it:
For many men, a single visual trigger can instantly create arousal.
Feet. Shoes. High heels. Certain movements.
It happens automatically.
But for many women, attraction works differently.
It’s often more connected to:
emotion, context, chemistry, communication, and emotional tension.
That’s why many women don’t instinctively understand how one specific detail can create such a strong reaction in men.
Not because they’re judgmental.
But because their own sexuality often works differently.
And maybe that’s the important point:
You’re both talking about attraction…
but from two completely different internal experiences.
And understanding that difference can change everything.
If you want to understand this topic on a deeper level, follow me and leave a like.
#psychology #heels #feet #desire #fyp

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feet, fyp, desire, psychology, heels

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