# @shessoluckypod on YouTube

- **Type:** Video
- **Original URL:** https://youtube.com/watch?v=lej-3SoqZLk
- **Gondola URL:** https://gondola.cc/posts/68678510-shessoluckypod-youtube
- **Thumbnail:** https://img.gondola.cc/tr:w-,h-,fo-auto/postThumbnails/dccf5eefa4.jpg
- **Posted:** 2026-08-04T15:00:36.000+00:00
- **Account Owner:** She's So Lucky (@shessoluckypod) — https://gondola.cc/shessoluckypod

## Caption

Today's solo episode started as a reflection on my own disillusionment and turned into a bigger theme: de-influencing. De-influencing myself from glow-up culture, from FOMO, and so much more. The more I let go of what I'm "supposed" to want, the luckier I actually feel — and I think most of us have at least one thing we're still letting an algorithm or a comment section talk us into.

If you've ever gone along with something because you thought you were supposed to want it, only to realize once you were in it that it didn't actually feel good, this episode is for you. I'm getting into what it looks like to actually listen to that feeling instead of pushing through it, and what's on the other side when you do.

Chapters:
0:00 The Power of Being Hard to Influence
1:31 Navigating Support and Parasocial Dynamics
4:39 Challenging the Perception of Seriousness
8:07 Disillusionment with Modern Internet Culture
13:50 Are We Done Glowing Up Yet?
22:30 A Whirlwind Summer of Work and Travel
43:40 Redefining My Role as a Creator
51:17 The Future Belongs to the Sharpest

This episode is brought to you by:

- Luxe Tribes: Visit https://www.luxetribes.com and use code LUCKY at checkout for $100 off your first trip.
- Rula: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/lucky #rulapod
- Cotton: Cotton is The Fabric of Our Lives. Learn more at https://www.TheFabricofOurLives.com
- Brickhouse Nutrition: Go to https://www.brickhousenutrition.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off and free shipping.

Keep in Touch with Les:

- Subscribe to She’s So Lucky on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/
- Follow Les on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lesalfred
- Follow She’s So Lucky on IG: https://www.instagram.com/shessoluckypod
- Follow Les on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theluckyles
- Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shessoluckypod
- Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com

Music License: MB01LEOMOQYQA4Z

## Stats

- **Views:** 4,509
- **Likes:** 248
- **Shares:** 0
- **Comments:** 65

## Tags

rulapod

---
Copyright (c) Gondola